So you’re a girl who wants to be in a Traditional Gender Role relationship with your man, but don’t know how to broach the topic with him?
Kneel.
It’s as simple as that. One day, after dinner, when he’s relaxing, bring him his drink, sink to your knees, and look at him.
He might say something like “what are you doing?”
Lower your eyes and whisper, “kneeling for you, Sir.”
Oh sure, he may laugh. He may think it’s a joke. He may tell you to stop it.
Don’t move.
If he persists and says, “c’mon stop this. Stand up. This is silly.”
Simply say, “is that a command, Sir? To stand up?”
If he says, “yes,” then say, “yes Sir” and stand.
Now, of course, it’s not going to be exactly like that. For all you know, he may stroke your hair and say “good girl. I knew you’d come around eventually.” That would be great, wouldn’t it?
But chances are, you’re going to have to struggle with him a little at first until he begins to understand that he’s in charge, he’s the head of the relationship, he’s the leader and you’re the follower.
Stay strong. And when he finally begins to understand that you might be putting him in charge, send him to my blog or to any one of the other marvelous Traditional Gender Role blogs on Tumblr. But stay strong. You’re going to have to lead this for the first little while. And that’s okay. If you have to lead yourself by a leash, do it. If you have to top from the bottom, do it. If you have to kneel without him asking, do it.
Kneel, but kneel firm.
